The very first step in getting back your ex is to figure out if they're still interested in you. This is trickier than it seems, I know. You've got a lot of strong emotions and it can be hard to see what's really there. Fortunately, this guide will help you see the signs that mean you can get back your ex.
Sign #1: Fun and Flirty Behavior
Is your ex flirting with you? Are they getting in a little too close when you talk? Is their behavior just a little bit too risqué? Then there's a good chance that are still some feelings there.
This is the most obvious sign, and you might be tempted to write it off as your imagination. Don't ignore this sign, but don't let it make you think that there is more there.
This is not an invitation to jump right back into the full blown relationship, so don't let your enthusiasm get the best of you. But do take it as a sign that you can begin to rebuild your relationship.
Sign #2: Jealousy When You Mention Dating Other People
Does your ex start twitching and frothing at the mouth whenever you mention other people? Then you've got some jealousy pointed your way. And in this case, jealousy can be a good thing.
I say can be, because sometimes jealousy is just a byproduct of not having you anymore. But if some time has passed and your ex is still getting irritable about you dating other people, especially if they broke up with you, then this is good news, because it means there's still a spark.
That said, you should never try to make them jealous. You're looking for signs, not trying to make signs that aren't there. You can get your ex back, but not like that. You need to find real signs that it's time to rebuild your relationship.
Sign #3: They Keep Checking Up On You
Depending on how the break up went, it might not be unusual for your ex to be concerned about how you're doing. This in and of itself is a good sign, but it's not one that you can count of, precisely because it's a fairly normal response.
But if they are constantly checking up on you, emailing you and phoning you to see if you're okay. This goes beyond concern and goes into trying to keep you close. Your ex is trying to maintain a connection with you, a very good sign that you can get them back.
Sign #4: They Keep Hanging On
The obvious example is where they have left half the stuff they own at your place and keep finding reasons not to pick the whole thing up. Or they don't your keys back. Any little thing that keeps them from closure. Basically, anything that gives them a reason to keep coming back to you.
This is a great sign that they still want you in their lives, and that means that you have a great chance of getting them back. That emotional connection is vital, and it's what you are looking for before you attempt to get back your ex.
But figuring out if they're interested is only the first step. If you really want to get